If I had my child to raise over again,
I’d finger paint more, and point the finger less.
I’d do less correcting, and more connecting.
I’d take my eyes off my watch, and watch with my eyes.
I would care to know less, and know to care more.
I’d take more hikes and fly more kites.
I’d stop playing serious, and seriously play.
I’d run through more fields, and gaze at more stars.
I’d do more hugging, and less tugging.
I would be firm less often, and affirm much more.
I’d build self-esteem first, and the house later.
I’d teach less about the love of power,
And more about the power of love.
Let me tell you something you already knew. The world ain’t sunshine and rainbow. It is very mean and nasty place and it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain’t how hard you hit, it’s about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward. That’s how winning is done. Now, if you know what you’re worth, then go out and get what you’re worth. But you gotta be willing to take the hit, and not pointing fingers saying you ain’t where you are because of her, or him, or anybody. Cowards do that and that ain’t you. You’re better than that !
- Rocky Balbooa
Great minds discuss ideas, average minds discuss events, small minds discuss people.
- Eleanor Roosevelt
Semua itu pilihan. Kamu bisa putus cinta tanpa patah hati. Kamu bisa hidup tanpa memikirkan dia yang menyakiti kamu. Kamu bisa membuat dirimu hidup bahagia. Kamu bisa jika kamu mau. Masalahnya, apa kamu mau?
- (via rizkyastari)